Cheated

I might not a marry yet but the cases of a young married couple divorced because of then cheated is making it a bit scary for a single woman like to put trust in man.  You may said anything to me but i just couldnt bare a guy that cheated to his wife despite all the problems you are facing. There is so many way for you to try to save you marriage instead of finding another women to heal your broken heart, try talk heart to heart.  Sometimes the women had no clue of this married guy. They strongly denying the fact they are tied to someone.  I was involved in this marriage guy cases. He is only 24 and we had been friend for almost 2 years. We develop feeling for each other until one day he is out of action. I tried to reach him but there is no answer from him.  And he had been dissapear for almost 6 month untill i get a whatsapp from him saying why did i go away. i was in shocked because it was him in the first place that been missing. I remember getting a text saying 'sorry, i dah kahwin'. Then we tried to solve our problem and i ask him why would you say you are married. The answer are because he mad at me and say that he is sorry for lying. I trusted him until the day i texted him "good night dear". He blocked me after that. I dont whether it was him or his wife that done that. But i was relief when that happen. That is the time i know the truth. He been married to this girl for almost 6 month. Well i guest now i know why is he dissappearing. I stalk all his instagram to see him with his wife living a beautiful life saying she is the only 'bidadari syurga'. No offense, you got a beautiful wife by your side, why would you cheated. Please stop doing stupid things behind your wife. I know how it feels to have your love one cheated on you. I am so sorry that i disturbed your happy family , i wouldnt if i know the truth. To the guy, you know who you are. please take care of your wife and treated her nicely. You already cheated on her once, lets make that the last one.